135. Skip the pre-date shot/glass of wine/cocktail while you're getting ready...

if you have to booze to loosen up beforehand, the two of you probably aren't that compatible to begin with or you have self-esteem issues you should consider resolving first. He'll stare blankly at you from across the table wondering how a glass and a half of wine got you so hammered and you'll undoubtedly find yourself a week later wondering why he hasn't called.